Wednesday, October 26, 2011

You want to make friends, don't you? I think we all do.

The benefits of having friends are bottomless, like you can talk about the concept of friends with benefits without tripidation.Anyway my friends without benefits and I,were talking about that the other day (off course this conversation was inspired by the movie, yes you guessed it, Friends With Benefits, starring Justine Timberlake and Mila Kunis)and we all agree on a single defination of a friend with benefits, so here we go :A friend with benefits is someone you get to have sex with, no strings attached. There’s no expensive dinners, no roses and no being home on time required. It is a mutually beneficial relationship with a friend or acquaintance where you don’t get to take them out on a date, but you do get to call them at 1 a.m. when the bar closes to see if they want to hook up.Now if you want in on that kind of swing, read on and learn,alright?

Unfortunately, old sexual standards ensure that the friends-with-benefits choice isn’t really yours at the end of the day. The woman, as usual, gets to call the shots (assuming you have done your footwork). All you can do is make sure she knows that you’re willing, ready and able. This entails giving straightforward clues as to your wishes and desires to be friends with benefits.The rules of being friends with benefits must be mutually agreeable, because if one of you isn’t getting what you want, the relationship is worthless. If one of you starts to have feelings for the other -- well you can deal with that when and if the time comes, but remember there are many things to consider when approaching a potential friend for benefits.

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